{"id":17138,"date":"2023-11-13T16:20:34","date_gmt":"2023-11-13T16:20:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.cardiff.ac.uk\/insiders\/?p=17138"},"modified":"2023-11-13T16:20:34","modified_gmt":"2023-11-13T16:20:34","slug":"how-to-find-the-best-housemates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.cardiff.ac.uk\/insiders\/how-to-find-the-best-housemates\/","title":{"rendered":"How to find the best housemates"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Finding the right housemates can be challenging, however, these tips should help you consider the decision from all angles before committing to a specific group of housemates. This blog aims to give you insight and advice on what you need to be thinking about when looking to find the best housemates possible for you &#8211; and these aren&#8217;t always your best friends!<\/p>\n<p><b>You could find a house with:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Your first-year housemates &#8211; Moving into your second-year house with your previous first-year housemates is really common. If living in a larger accommodation, you could relatively easily a group of people that you feel comfortable with and could share accommodation with for another year.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Friends &#8211; Friends from your course, societies or even a night out could make for great housemates. Just make sure that you&#8217;re aware of the potential for housemate issues to impact your friendships &#8211; more on this below.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Fellow students searching on Facebook groups &#8211; While to some people living with strangers may be strange, if you&#8217;re in a difficult situation there are useful Facebook groups with other students in similar situations. Alternatively, if you have a friend drop out of a group, then these are great places to check. I recommend <a class=\"x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz x1heor9g xt0b8zv x1xlr1w8\" role=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/216123953390294\/\">Cardiff Students House Hunters<\/a> or <a class=\"x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz x1heor9g xt0b8zv x1xlr1w8\" role=\"link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/788723094488154\/\">Overheard at Cardiff University<\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Questions to consider before living with someone<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"post-17140 media-17140\" class=\"image align-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.cardiff.ac.uk\/insiders\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/523\/2023\/11\/simon-maage-tXiMrX3Gc-g-unsplash-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><figcaption class=\"caption\">Photo by Simon Maage on Unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Are you compatible as friends? This involves having similar interests and being able to understand each other and be comfortable as a group. Being compatible as friends means that you can get on with each other on a day-to-day basis, making your living situation more comfortable.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">What do you both expect out of living with each other? Will you want to hang out or just want to exchange pleasantries in the kitchen? Will you have a cleaning rota that everyone will keep to? Do you both have similar habits?\u00a0 If someone likes to go clubbing three times a week and wants to host regular house parties while another housemate isn&#8217;t social<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Are you close friends &#8211; do you want to risk that friendship? Living with close friends can be great, however, the impact of seeing each other every day and sharing a space could impact that friendship. This is serious to consider before making plans to move in with each other as well as creating an action plan for what you will do if there are any tensions.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Do you have the same budget? Budget is one of the most important aspects of finding a house. Not only when it comes to rent but also in terms of bills. There may be tensions later on if someone wants to have the heating on all day while someone else&#8217;s budget doesn&#8217;t allow that. This is a conversation that should happen early on to avoid any potential issues in the future.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Finding the right housemates can be challenging, however, these tips should help you consider the decision from all angles before committing to a specific group of housemates. 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